Buying flowers from us ensures that your order will be fulfilled through working with a network florists that are trusted by local funeral homes and recognized partners of the funeral industry. A customized message, along with a photo of your selected arrangement will remain in perpetuity within this memorial website. This service also includes “Smart Select” whereby the store notifies you if your floral selection has already been selected by another sender. This allows you the opportunity to choose a different product to ensure the family has a beautiful and unique selection of unique floral arrangements.
The price of these selections also includes the funeral home’s care of the flowers after the funeral and the delivery to the family or facility of choice where they can be rearranged and enjoyed by others for a longer period.
The solitude and quiet peace of a flickering candle has long been a symbol of remembrance. Each candle lit will remain lit within this memorial website for the period you select. Your thoughtful gesture will be captured both in the candle as well as listed in perpetuity within the tributes section.
In today’s changing world with climate change and environment concerns, “Honoring a Life” allows for family and friends to plant a memorial tree in honor of their loved one and friend. The purchase of a tree creates a beautiful permanent record on the Honoring a Life website, www.honoringalife.org. Each tree is planted through the efforts of Forestry Services throughout North America who determine where the greatest needs for reforestation are. Once planted, the geographical location where the tree is planted will be added to the record. A beautiful card is also sent to the family signifying your thoughtful gesture.
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We are proud to provide this service allowing friends and family to donate to any registered charity throughout North America. You will receive an official tax receipt immediately via email and your thoughtful gesture will remain on this memorial website in perpetuity.
The time surrounding a death can often bring unexpected final expenses for the family far beyond the funeral itself. We are pleased to offer the ability for friends and relatives to financially support the family during their time of loss as an alternative to flowers and other sympathy gestures.
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OSTLING, Joan K. (nee Kerns) 69, of Ridgewood, a writer and college teacher, died of breast cancer on January 11.
The 32-year Ridgewood resident was best-known nationally as the co-author with her journalist husband Richard of “Mormon America” (1999, revised 2007), a standard book on the topic that the “New York Times Book Review” called “eminently fair, well-researched and exhaustive.” She also co-authored the scholarly annotated bibliography on books by and about C.S. Lewis, and published numerous articles and photographs.
Locally, she was the clerk of council, a lay elder, and longtime worship committee chair at the Ridgewood Christian Reformed Church; president of Friends of Music, the community support group for Ridgewood public school music; and a Ridgewood Symphony Orchestra board member.
Besides her husband she is survived by two daughters, both Ridgewood High School graduates: Margaret Chang of Lake Forest, Calif., and Elizabeth Ostling of Boston, Mass.; five grandchildren; a sister, Judith Hunter of Camp Hill, Pa., and a brother, J. Robert Kerns of Reading, Pa.
Joan Kerns Ostling was raised in Shillington, Pa. She earned a bachelor’s degree in political science and writing from Wheaton College in Illinois, an M.A. in political science from the University of Illinois, an M.A. in English from the University of Maryland, and completed coursework and comprehensive examinations toward a Ph.D. in English at New York University.
She was a reporter for the newspaper chain that covers Chicago’s western suburbs, a writer-editor with the U.S. Information Agency in Washington, D .C., and taught English and journalism at The King’s College, Briarcliff Manor, N.Y., and at Nyack (N.Y.) College.
Funeral services will be held Friday, 10:30 am at the Ridgewood Christian Reformed Church. Visiting is Thursday, 2:00 to 4:00 and 7:00 to 9:00 pm at the Vander Plaat Funeral Home, 257 Godwin Avenue, Wyckoff, NJ. In lieu of flowers, contributions are appreciated to the Ridgewood Christian Reformed Church, 271 Lincoln Avenue, Ridgewood, NJ 07450,
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