Ordering through the funeral home helps ensure your order will be placed through a local flower shop with whom the funeral home has a personal and trusting relationship with. Through this service, you will be able to leave a longer message of support to the family via a card with the picture of your selection that will be included with your thoughtful gesture. As well as a photo of your arrangement and message will remain in perpetuity within this memorial website. This service also includes “Smart Select” whereby the store notifies you if your floral selection has already been selected by another sender, allowing you the opportunity to choose a different arrangement if you wish.
The price of these selections also include the funeral home caring for the flowers after the funeral and delivering them to the family, or various care facilities where they can be rearranged and enjoyed by others for a longer period.
The solitude and quiet peace of a flickering candle has long been a symbol of remembrance. Each candle lit will remain lit within this memorial website for the period you select. Your thoughtful gesture will be captured both in the candle as well as listed in perpetuity within the tributes section.
In today’s changing world with climate change and environment concerns, “Honoring a Life” allows for family and friends to plant a memorial tree in honor of their loved one and friend. The purchase of a tree creates a beautiful permanent record on the Honoring a Life website, www.honoringalife.org. Each tree is planted through the efforts of Forestry Services throughout North America who determine where the greatest needs for reforestation are. Once planted, the geographical location where the tree is planted will be added to the record. A beautiful card is also sent to the family signifying your thoughtful gesture.
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We are proud to provide this service allowing friends and family to donate to any registered charity throughout North America. You will receive an official tax receipt immediately via email and your thoughtful gesture will remain on this memorial website in perpetuity.
The time surrounding a death can often bring unexpected final expenses for the family far beyond the funeral itself. We are pleased to offer the ability for friends and relatives to financially support the family during their time of loss as an alternative to flowers and other sympathy gestures.
This memorial currently does not have financial support enabled.
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Edward Andrew Ashanky passed away May 3, 2011. He fought the good fight but his body wore out on him. Ed was an Elder and treasured member of the United Presbyterian Church in Plainfield. He was a good and kind man who made a difference in peoples lives. He saw a problem and moved in to help find a solution where people could not find one for themselves. Everyone who knew him came away a little richer. Our family and his friends will find his void hard to fill. Our sorrow is only eased by knowing he is in the Lord’s hands now. He was a long time member and past treasurer of The Mended Hearts, Inc. Chapter #186 in Springfield, NJ. He also took part in their Camp Hope Program for children with heart ailments. He was awarded the 1981 Donald S. McNaughton Humanitarian Award for Community Leadership through the Prudential Insurance Company. He retired from Prudential Insurance Company in 1984. Edward was Co-Chair for Issues & Answers sessions in the Learning for Life seniors program at United Presbyterian. He also was the Governor’s volunteer in the New Jersey State prisons, teaching and motivating prisoners in the Behavior Modification Program. After retirement he was a troubleshooter dealing with contractors for the United Presbyterian Church in Plainfield striving to get the best results for the building and grounds. He could smooth the waters and make things happen. He was involved in the Civilian Conservation Corps, Company 1204, Fort Hess and served during WWII in the 862ND Engineer Aviation Battalion, Company C from 1942-1945. He was a member of the Disabled American Veterans, Chapter #32. Edward is survived by his wife of 64 years Jeanne C. nee:Colby Ashanky, a son James and his wife Catherine, a daughter Karen A. Preissner, and 3 grandchildren Jenaire Burnett, Johanna Klein and Matthew Fox. A memorial service will be held on May 14, 2011 at 12:30pm at United Presbyterian Church, 525 East Front Street, Plainfield, NJ 07060. A light luncheon and fellowship will follow in the Fellowship Room. Arrangements are under the direction of Valley Memorial Funeral Home, 1012 Valley Rd, Gillette, NJ 07933. Memorial contributions may be made to the United Presbyterian Church Information and online condolences www.valleymemorialfuneralhome.net.
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