Buying flowers from us ensures that your order will be fulfilled through working with a network florists that are trusted by local funeral homes and recognized partners of the funeral industry. A customized message, along with a photo of your selected arrangement will remain in perpetuity within this memorial website. This service also includes “Smart Select” whereby the store notifies you if your floral selection has already been selected by another sender. This allows you the opportunity to choose a different product to ensure the family has a beautiful and unique selection of unique floral arrangements.
The price of these selections also includes the funeral home’s care of the flowers after the funeral and the delivery to the family or facility of choice where they can be rearranged and enjoyed by others for a longer period.
The solitude and quiet peace of a flickering candle has long been a symbol of remembrance. Each candle lit will remain lit within this memorial website for the period you select. Your thoughtful gesture will be captured both in the candle as well as listed in perpetuity within the tributes section.
In today’s changing world with climate change and environment concerns, “Honoring a Life” allows for family and friends to plant a memorial tree in honor of their loved one and friend. The purchase of a tree creates a beautiful permanent record on the Honoring a Life website, www.honoringalife.org. Each tree is planted through the efforts of Forestry Services throughout North America who determine where the greatest needs for reforestation are. Once planted, the geographical location where the tree is planted will be added to the record. A beautiful card is also sent to the family signifying your thoughtful gesture.
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We are proud to provide this service allowing friends and family to donate to any registered charity throughout North America. You will receive an official tax receipt immediately via email and your thoughtful gesture will remain on this memorial website in perpetuity.
The time surrounding a death can often bring unexpected final expenses for the family far beyond the funeral itself. We are pleased to offer the ability for friends and relatives to financially support the family during their time of loss as an alternative to flowers and other sympathy gestures.
This memorial currently does not have financial support enabled.
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Margaret M. Gavin of Defreestville died on June 14, 2011 at Albany Medical Center. Born in 1929 she was the oldest daughter of Dr. Thomas and Helen Rausch Phelan of Rensselaer. She was a graduate of The Academy of the Holy Names and The College of New Rochelle. In 1952 she was married to James M. Gavin MD of Defreestville who survived her. They were happily and lovingly married for 59 years. She is also survived by her beloved children James M. Jr. and his wife Agnes of Saratoga Springs, Thomas W. of Guilderland, Ellen and her husband Bruce Kelley of Minneapolis and John P. MD and his wife Allison Lupinetti MD of Colonie. Margaret is proudly survived by seven grandsons, James M. III and his wife Stacy of Atlanta, GA, Jeffrey of Seattle, WA, Jesse of Los Angeles, CA, Jacob of Rochester, William L. of Rotterdam, William H. and Patrick both of Colonie and two great grandchildren Caitlin and Braden of Atlanta. She is also survived by five step-grandchildren and by eight step great grandchildren. Also survived by her siblings William H. Phelan MD of Glenview, IL, Helen Howe and her husband Edward of Defreestville, Col. Frank Phelan and his wife Gayle of Tampa, FL, Mary Rose Chapman of Waco, TX, and John A. Phelan and his wife Marilyn of Loudonville. Predeceased by her sister-in-law Emily O’Connor, her brother-in-law Robert Chapman, her brother Fr. Thomas Phelan of Troy and a treasured sister-in-law Martina Norwood Phelan. Her family was her life. Funeral from the W.J. Lyons Jr. Funeral Home 1700 Washington Avenue Rensselaer Friday morning at 9:30 and 10:30 at St. John the Evangelist and St. Joseph Church Herrick Street Rensselaer where the Liturgy of Christian Death and Burial will be offered. Relatives and friends are invited and may call at the funeral home Thursday from 4-8 PM. Interment will be in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery, East Greenbush. Contributions in her memory may be made to the Rensselaer Newman Foundation C/O Chaplin’s office The Student Union Room 3514 Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute Troy, NY 12180 or St. Peter’s Hospital Foundation 319 So. Manning Blvd. Suite 309 Albany, NY 12208
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