Ordering through the funeral home helps ensure your order will be placed through a local flower shop with whom the funeral home has a personal and trusting relationship with. Through this service, you will be able to leave a longer message of support to the family via a card with the picture of your selection that will be included with your thoughtful gesture. As well as a photo of your arrangement and message will remain in perpetuity within this memorial website. This service also includes “Smart Select” whereby the store notifies you if your floral selection has already been selected by another sender, allowing you the opportunity to choose a different arrangement if you wish.
The price of these selections also include the funeral home caring for the flowers after the funeral and delivering them to the family, or various care facilities where they can be rearranged and enjoyed by others for a longer period.
The solitude and quiet peace of a flickering candle has long been a symbol of remembrance. Each candle lit will remain lit within this memorial website for the period you select. Your thoughtful gesture will be captured both in the candle as well as listed in perpetuity within the tributes section.
In today’s changing world with climate change and environment concerns, “Honoring a Life” allows for family and friends to plant a memorial tree in honor of their loved one and friend. The purchase of a tree creates a beautiful permanent record on the Honoring a Life website, www.honoringalife.org. Each tree is planted through the efforts of Forestry Services throughout North America who determine where the greatest needs for reforestation are. Once planted, the geographical location where the tree is planted will be added to the record. A beautiful card is also sent to the family signifying your thoughtful gesture.
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We are proud to provide this service allowing friends and family to donate to any registered charity throughout North America. You will receive an official tax receipt immediately via email and your thoughtful gesture will remain on this memorial website in perpetuity.
The time surrounding a death can often bring unexpected final expenses for the family far beyond the funeral itself. We are pleased to offer the ability for friends and relatives to financially support the family during their time of loss as an alternative to flowers and other sympathy gestures.
This memorial currently does not have financial support enabled.
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Robert James Goodenow died Saturday, December 15, 2007, after a long illness. He was known professionally as an accomplished innovator in the world of communications technology, a master craftsman, a supporter of peace and justice, and a steward of earth’s resources. Born February 10, 1944 in Patterson, New Jersey, son of Purley Montreville Goodenow and Doris (Kells) Goodenow, he held dear the heritage of family and strove always to live by: “To whom much is given, much is expected.’’ A graduate of Metuchen High School, Class of 1962 in Whippany, New Jersey, he received his Bachelor of Arts in Economics degree from Parsons College (Iowa) in 1966 followed by graduate studies in Business Administration at New York University. His Corporate career began with Coopers and Lybrand, designing and implementing telecommunication networks. In 1976 as Manager of the Advanced Technology Office Program at Citicorp he designed and delivered the first electronic mail system, known as Management Work Station. He subsequently built the Micro-image Technology Laboratory firm which became the CITISprint product, a materials management system that networked suppliers to work stations. He implemented the first all digital voice/data network for ITT and designed and delivered automated International Direct Distance Dial processes. As Director of New Business Development at United Technologies’ Building Systems Company, he was responsible for the design and implementation of United Technologies’ new businesses in health care and telecommunications. For the Carter Administration he gave the opening remarks and a separate presentation to the 1979 White House Conference on Library and Information Services which was focused on telecommunications opportunities. His recommendations on the evolution of a networked society and how this would enhance productivity were submitted to Congress. He retired from the corporate world to return to his first love, the craftsmanship of building, restoring and maintaining fine residences, which he learned at his father’s side as a teen. His great loves - his son Cliff, the Yankees, and the heritage of New England- were always clearly and quickly known to anyone who made his acquaintance, and honored by all who knew him as friend. He is predeceased by his father. He leaves his son Clifford Nicholas; his brother Ronald (Carol) of Northborough, MA; two dearly loved nieces, Rachel and Ellen; and his mother, Doris Goodenow of Beacon Point, FL. Friends may call at the Vincent Funeral Home, 880 Hopmeadow Street, Simsbury, Saturday, December 22, 2:00 to 3:00 p.m. A memorial celebration of his life will follow at 3:00 p.m. at the funeral home. His wishes were that, in lieu of flowers or memorials, donations be made in his name to Plowshares Institute, P.O. Box 243, Simsbury, CT, 06070, (www.plowsharesinstitute.org) for the continuance of their work for peace and justice throughout the world. For on-line condolences or directions please visit www.vincentfuneralhome.com
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