Stebbins B. Ingram
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Stebbins B. Ingram

June 24, 1933 - February 27, 2012

Stebbins B. Ingram

June 24, 1933 - February 27, 2012


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Obituary for Stebbins B. Ingram

Stebbins Brokenborough Ingram passed February 27, 2012. His love of life was apparent until he departed this world to join his Heavenly Father. He was born June 24, 1933 in Winston-Salem, NC the son of the late James Berkley Ingram, Sr. and Virginia Stebbins Ingram.

His immediate family includes his wife Connie Lancaster Ingram; daughters Karen Stebbins Ingram, Brooklyn, NY, Virginia Carter Ingram, husband Ariel Cintrón Arias, Johnson City, TN; sister Virginia Stebbins Ingram, Clemmons, NC; niece, Jane Berkley Ingram von Feilitzsch, Amissville, VA, husband Heribert and sons Fabian, Phillip and Mathias, preceded in death by his brother, James Berkley Ingram, Jr. Family cousins Mary Dare, Howard and Mary Howard Holderness, Greensboro, NC.

He was proud of his foreign exchange students, Anna Caterina Paola Erba from Milan, Italy, Sandra Durán Farré from Barcelona, Spain, Alexia Hou from Bordeaux, France and Evgenia (Jane) Egorova from Moscow, Russia. And would be proud to mention his extended family: Anna Caterina Paola Erba, Lorenzo Marco Montelatici, Marco Sergio Montelatici, Pietro Andrea Montelatici from Italy. Sandra Durán Farré, Ignacio Comella Gutierrez, Ana Comella Durán, Irene Comella Durán, María Comella Durán, Helena Comella Durán, Ignacio Comella Durán, Guillermo Comella Durán, Pedro Comella Durán and Santiago Comella Durán of Spain, now living in Vietnam. Alexia Hou Lafourgue, Laurent Laforgue and baby Alice of France. Evgenia Egorova and Marco Mariani of Russia and Italy, now living in Germany. His beloved cat Brooklyn and greyhounds Peaches and Meg-o Ingram had a special place in his heart.

He loved the staff and customers of Johnny K’s restaurant in Indian Trail, world history, current events, traveling the world and was very devoted to his family and friends. He hated peaches, the fruit, and tolerated Peaches, the dog. He had a great sense of humor and loved food from the 1950’s especially tomato aspic and anything he could augment with Texas Pete (from Winston-Salem, mind you). He was very proud of the Major Awards given to him in December 2011 by Roscoe and Sara Wagoner and Howard and Mary Dare Holderness.

His friends and family treasure the goodness, integrity, honor and good humor he projected.

A graduate of Davidson College, he served in the US Army Agency as a cryptography analyst. Highlights of his career include VP of Wachovia Corporation, President of Wachovia Services, forming Allied Financial Services, a data processing firm processing banks throughout NC, SC and VA, founding Director and President of The National Association of Bank Servicers, founding Ingram & Associates, Inc., and consulting with financial institutions throughout the US and Russia. He designed and developed a nationwide computer driven teller machine.

He was an Elder of Siler Presbyterian Church and was active in organizations as a Board Member.

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