Ordering through the funeral home helps ensure your order will be placed through a local flower shop with whom the funeral home has a personal and trusting relationship with. Through this service, you will be able to leave a longer message of support to the family via a card with the picture of your selection that will be included with your thoughtful gesture. As well as a photo of your arrangement and message will remain in perpetuity within this memorial website. This service also includes “Smart Select” whereby the store notifies you if your floral selection has already been selected by another sender, allowing you the opportunity to choose a different arrangement if you wish.
The price of these selections also include the funeral home caring for the flowers after the funeral and delivering them to the family, or various care facilities where they can be rearranged and enjoyed by others for a longer period.
The solitude and quiet peace of a flickering candle has long been a symbol of remembrance. Each candle lit will remain lit within this memorial website for the period you select. Your thoughtful gesture will be captured both in the candle as well as listed in perpetuity within the tributes section.
In today’s changing world with climate change and environment concerns, “Honoring a Life” allows for family and friends to plant a memorial tree in honor of their loved one and friend. The purchase of a tree creates a beautiful permanent record on the Honoring a Life website, www.honoringalife.org. Each tree is planted through the efforts of Forestry Services throughout North America who determine where the greatest needs for reforestation are. Once planted, the geographical location where the tree is planted will be added to the record. A beautiful card is also sent to the family signifying your thoughtful gesture.
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We are proud to provide this service allowing friends and family to donate to any registered charity throughout North America. You will receive an official tax receipt immediately via email and your thoughtful gesture will remain on this memorial website in perpetuity.
The time surrounding a death can often bring unexpected final expenses for the family far beyond the funeral itself. We are pleased to offer the ability for friends and relatives to financially support the family during their time of loss as an alternative to flowers and other sympathy gestures.
This memorial currently does not have financial support enabled.
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Thomas Michael Gay, 67, died on May 18, 2010 in Stillwater, Oklahoma. Family will greet friends at the funeral home from 6:30 p.m. until 8:30 p.m. on Friday, May 21, 2010. His funeral services will be at 2:00 p.m. on Saturday, May 22, 2010 at Strode Funeral Home Chapel in Stillwatern with Pastor Larry Eslinger officiating. Interment will follow at Sunset Memorial Gardens. Strode Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements. He was born on August 31, 1942 to E.H. and LaDoris Gay in Beggs, Oklahoma. He married Marilyn L. Watts on November 21, 1966 in Stillwater, Oklahoma. He worked in law enforcement for 17 years and was a member of Elks Lodge. Michael enjoyed golf, fishing, and hunting. He was a real people person, who took pleasure in family gatherings, cookouts, and loved to make people laugh. He was preceded in death by his parents E.H and LaDoris and one brother, Jerry Gay. He is survived by two sons, Donny W. Gay, of Stillwater and Glenn Steven Gay, of Stillwater; one daughter, Melissa S. Hawkins and husband, Jason, of Stillwater; a son from a previous marriage, Thomas M. Gay, of Virginia and one daughter, Lisa M. Holt, of Virginia; three granddaughters, Savannah, Courtney, and Shelby Hawkins; and one sister, Suzette Branton and husband, Charles, of Canton, TX. Condolences may be emailed to the family and an online obituary may be viewed by visiting www.strodefh.com .
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