Ordering through the funeral home helps ensure your order will be placed through a local flower shop with whom the funeral home has a personal and trusting relationship with. Through this service, you will be able to leave a longer message of support to the family via a card with the picture of your selection that will be included with your thoughtful gesture. As well as a photo of your arrangement and message will remain in perpetuity within this memorial website. This service also includes “Smart Select” whereby the store notifies you if your floral selection has already been selected by another sender, allowing you the opportunity to choose a different arrangement if you wish.
The price of these selections also include the funeral home caring for the flowers after the funeral and delivering them to the family, or various care facilities where they can be rearranged and enjoyed by others for a longer period.
The solitude and quiet peace of a flickering candle has long been a symbol of remembrance. Each candle lit will remain lit within this memorial website for the period you select. Your thoughtful gesture will be captured both in the candle as well as listed in perpetuity within the tributes section.
In today’s changing world with climate change and environment concerns, “Honoring a Life” allows for family and friends to plant a memorial tree in honor of their loved one and friend. The purchase of a tree creates a beautiful permanent record on the Honoring a Life website, www.honoringalife.org. Each tree is planted through the efforts of Forestry Services throughout North America who determine where the greatest needs for reforestation are. Once planted, the geographical location where the tree is planted will be added to the record. A beautiful card is also sent to the family signifying your thoughtful gesture.
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We are proud to provide this service allowing friends and family to donate to any registered charity throughout North America. You will receive an official tax receipt immediately via email and your thoughtful gesture will remain on this memorial website in perpetuity.
The time surrounding a death can often bring unexpected final expenses for the family far beyond the funeral itself. We are pleased to offer the ability for friends and relatives to financially support the family during their time of loss as an alternative to flowers and other sympathy gestures.
This memorial currently does not have financial support enabled.
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Robert A. Pilkington, 81 of Decatur, died on Monday, February 18, 2013 at Bay Pines V.A. Hospital in St. Petersburg, FL. Bob was born in Alliance, Nebraska on March 4, 1931 to the late Leonard and Ruth M. (Leonard) Pilkington. He married Wilma Fredenburg on November 1, 1952. Bob was a member of First United Methodist Church and its choir. He was a member of the Decatur Lions Club, American Legion Post 43, and Disabled American Veterans. Bob graduated in 1965 from Adams State College in Alamosa CO with a BA and MA. He was in the United States Marines Corp during the Korean Conflict. He was a teacher and coach for North Adams Community Schools from 1969-1989. He was the head of the Industrial Arts Dept. at Bellmont and led the ICT program. He was a defensive coach for Bellmont Varsity Football and head coach for Varsity Baseball, and an assistant coach for wrestling. He was involved in the Fellowship of Christian Athletes. Bob and Wilma were avid sailors. He had his captain’s license on Lake Michigan and chartered sunset boat rides. They retired and sailed to the Bahamas during the winters for 7 years. Survivors include his wife of 60 years Wilma M. Pilkington of Decatur and Sebring, FL; children, Penny (Jim) Spiegel of Sebring, FL, Steven (Mary) Pilkington of Decatur, and Ron (Wendy) Pilkington of Napoleon, OH; a sister Helen Stafford of Denver, CO; a sister-in-law Marjean Pilkington of Culver City, CA; 8 grandchildren, Shelley (Brian) Glisson, Sean Spiegel, Shaanan Spiegel, Kayla Rose (Brad) Goodwin, Corey Pilkington, Sarah Pilkington, Rachel Pilkington and Jenna Pilkington; 4 great grandchildren, Gavin, Megan, Caleb and Grady Glisson. He was preceded in death by, a brother and a sister and a grandson Seth Samuel Spiegel. Visitation will be from 4:00-8:00 p.m. on Friday, February 22, 2013 at Haggard-Sefton & Hirschy Funeral Home. Calling also from 10:00-11:00 a.m. on Saturday at the church. Funeral service will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, Feb. 23rd at First United Methodist Church. Officiating will be Rev. Martha Lyon and Military rites will be conducted by American Legion Post 43. Memorials may be made to Bay Pines VA Hospital-Fisher House or First U.M.C. Missions.
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