Ordering through the funeral home helps ensure your order will be placed through a local flower shop with whom the funeral home has a personal and trusting relationship with. Through this service, you will be able to leave a longer message of support to the family via a card with the picture of your selection that will be included with your thoughtful gesture. As well as a photo of your arrangement and message will remain in perpetuity within this memorial website. This service also includes “Smart Select” whereby the store notifies you if your floral selection has already been selected by another sender, allowing you the opportunity to choose a different arrangement if you wish.
The price of these selections also include the funeral home caring for the flowers after the funeral and delivering them to the family, or various care facilities where they can be rearranged and enjoyed by others for a longer period.
The solitude and quiet peace of a flickering candle has long been a symbol of remembrance. Each candle lit will remain lit within this memorial website for the period you select. Your thoughtful gesture will be captured both in the candle as well as listed in perpetuity within the tributes section.
In today’s changing world with climate change and environment concerns, “Honoring a Life” allows for family and friends to plant a memorial tree in honor of their loved one and friend. The purchase of a tree creates a beautiful permanent record on the Honoring a Life website, www.honoringalife.org. Each tree is planted through the efforts of Forestry Services throughout North America who determine where the greatest needs for reforestation are. Once planted, the geographical location where the tree is planted will be added to the record. A beautiful card is also sent to the family signifying your thoughtful gesture.
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We are proud to provide this service allowing friends and family to donate to any registered charity throughout North America. You will receive an official tax receipt immediately via email and your thoughtful gesture will remain on this memorial website in perpetuity.
The time surrounding a death can often bring unexpected final expenses for the family far beyond the funeral itself. We are pleased to offer the ability for friends and relatives to financially support the family during their time of loss as an alternative to flowers and other sympathy gestures.
This memorial currently does not have financial support enabled.
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Sylvia R. Kahler died peacefully with her family at her side on April 1, 2013 at Faxton St. Luke’s Healthcare. Sylvia was born in Rome, N.Y. on September 16, 1929, the daughter of Charles E. and Florence Rudd. She was a 1947 graduate of Rome Free Academy and received a Bachelor of Science degree from Lake Erie College, class of 1951. Sylvia married Dr. John T. Kahler Jr. on September 6, 1952 at Zion Episcopal Church. Sylvia was a member of the Lake Delta Yacht Club, Teugega Country Club, Wednesday Morning Club and a charter member of the Ming Twig. She was a devoted wife, mother and grandmother. She was an excellent cook and baker and always enjoyed cooking for her family. Her Christmas candy cane cookies are legendary. Sylvia loved the outdoors, especially sailing on Lake Delta and skiing at Woods Valley. She also loved attending her grandson’s athletic events and took great pride in each of their accomplishments. Sylvia’s friends were very important to her as she was always one of the first responders in their time of need. She is survived by her loving husband of 60 years, John (Jack); sons John III (Sue Yin) and Gary (Camille) and a daughter Susan. She is also survived by three grandsons, Austin Kahler, Spencer Kahler and Charles Kahler. The family would like to especially thank Drs. Anthony Cotronea and Emil Wassel as well as the nursing staff at Faxton St. Luke’s Healthcare. A memorial service will be held Friday, April 5 at 11:00 am at Zion Episcopal Church, 140 W. Liberty St., Rome. There are no calling hours. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Sylvia’s memory to the Community Foundation of Herkimer and Oneida Counties and/or St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital. Funeral arrangements are entrusted to Barry Funeral Home, 807 W. Chestnut Street. Please offer online tributes or light a candle at: www.BarryFuneralHome.com
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