Ordering through the funeral home helps ensure your order will be placed through a local flower shop with whom the funeral home has a personal and trusting relationship with. Through this service, you will be able to leave a longer message of support to the family via a card with the picture of your selection that will be included with your thoughtful gesture. As well as a photo of your arrangement and message will remain in perpetuity within this memorial website. This service also includes “Smart Select” whereby the store notifies you if your floral selection has already been selected by another sender, allowing you the opportunity to choose a different arrangement if you wish.
The price of these selections also include the funeral home caring for the flowers after the funeral and delivering them to the family, or various care facilities where they can be rearranged and enjoyed by others for a longer period.
The solitude and quiet peace of a flickering candle has long been a symbol of remembrance. Each candle lit will remain lit within this memorial website for the period you select. Your thoughtful gesture will be captured both in the candle as well as listed in perpetuity within the tributes section.
In today’s changing world with climate change and environment concerns, “Honoring a Life” allows for family and friends to plant a memorial tree in honor of their loved one and friend. The purchase of a tree creates a beautiful permanent record on the Honoring a Life website, www.honoringalife.org. Each tree is planted through the efforts of Forestry Services throughout North America who determine where the greatest needs for reforestation are. Once planted, the geographical location where the tree is planted will be added to the record. A beautiful card is also sent to the family signifying your thoughtful gesture.
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We are proud to provide this service allowing friends and family to donate to any registered charity throughout North America. You will receive an official tax receipt immediately via email and your thoughtful gesture will remain on this memorial website in perpetuity.
The time surrounding a death can often bring unexpected final expenses for the family far beyond the funeral itself. We are pleased to offer the ability for friends and relatives to financially support the family during their time of loss as an alternative to flowers and other sympathy gestures.
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Frederick H. Wandelt III age 65 of North Street, Watertown, died July 25, 2013 at Waterbury Hospital due to sudden complications of acute lymphoblastic leukemia, surrounded by family and friends. He was the husband of Joanna (Baker) Wandelt. For more than 30 years, Ferdie Wandelt was the face of the Taft School in Watertown, Conn. He traveled the globe seeking the best and brightest students. “From the outset, Ferdie understood two interrelated principles,” said Taft Headmaster Emeritus Lance Odden. “First, that attracting the best mix of diversely talented students would create a uniquely spirited community; and second, that the vibrancy so created would elevate Taft’s place in the community of schools.” No school has ever had a finer admissions leader. Frederick was born February 10, 1948 in Bryn Maur, PA a son of the late Frederick H. and Suzette “Suzie"(Sands) Wandelt Jr. Ferdie grew up in Princeton, New Jersey. A graduate of Taft and the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, he returned to Taft, after service with the National Guard, in the fall of 1971 to join the Admissions Office, earning an MALS degree at Wesleyan University. In 1976, he succeeded Joe Cunningham as director of admissions. “He transformed our school,” said Odden. “It is impossible to capture all Ferdie was to Taft and to thousands who knew and loved him,” said current Taft headmaster Willy MacMullen. “With his death, we have lost a great man, someone who will join the list of legendary educators who devoted their lives to our school, and someone who served with an unparalleled love, passion, and loyalty.” For the next four decades, he was a beloved figure on campus, but his service to the larger educational community meant he was also a globally respected leader. He was a board member of ASSIST (American Secondary Schools for International Students and Teachers); president of the SSATB (Secondary School Admissions Test Board); and a trustee for the Challengers Boys and Girls Club of Los Angeles. Other scholarship organizations, like Prep for Prep and the Wight Foundation, knew Ferdie as a supportive and visionary leader. Peer schools were made better because he helped open doors in international recruitment, and he shared his best ideas with them. “It’s about helping all schools and kids,” he said often. “He was much more than just the finest admissions director in the country,” said MacMullen. “Ferdie had a unique humor, warmth, and grace. After you met him in an interview, you wanted to attend Taft. And in those twenty minutes, Ferdie could ‘read’ a candidate with a sensitivity and insight that was astonishing. Those who were admitted felt blessed, and somehow, those who were not felt that he cared deeply and personally, and indeed, Ferdie regularly counseled families and helped them find another school that was a better fit.” He traveled the world telling the Taft story. He was a superb girls’ lacrosse coach, and scores of young teachers sought him for advice. Ferdie changed Taft, and he changed lives. He is survived by his wife Joanna, brother Joseph “Sandy” Wandelt of Sicklerville, N.J., daughter Allison Halsell her husband Benjamin, of New Canaan, Conn., son Christopher Wandelt and his wife Erin of Redding, Conn., and five grandchildren. A memorial service will be held at Taft on Saturday, Sept. 28 at a time to be announced. Burial will be private and at the convenience of his family. There are no calling hours. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Frederick H. Wandelt III '66 Scholarship Fund, The Taft School, 110 Woodbury Road, Watertown, CT 06795. The O’Neill Funeral Home, 742 Main Street Oakville has been entrusted to assist his family with arrangements. To extend online expressions of sympathy to his family or for additional information, kindly visit the funeral home website at www.oneillfuneralhome.com.
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