Ordering through the funeral home helps ensure your order will be placed through a local flower shop with whom the funeral home has a personal and trusting relationship with. Through this service, you will be able to leave a longer message of support to the family via a card with the picture of your selection that will be included with your thoughtful gesture. As well as a photo of your arrangement and message will remain in perpetuity within this memorial website. This service also includes “Smart Select” whereby the store notifies you if your floral selection has already been selected by another sender, allowing you the opportunity to choose a different arrangement if you wish.
The price of these selections also include the funeral home caring for the flowers after the funeral and delivering them to the family, or various care facilities where they can be rearranged and enjoyed by others for a longer period.
The solitude and quiet peace of a flickering candle has long been a symbol of remembrance. Each candle lit will remain lit within this memorial website for the period you select. Your thoughtful gesture will be captured both in the candle as well as listed in perpetuity within the tributes section.
In today’s changing world with climate change and environment concerns, “Honoring a Life” allows for family and friends to plant a memorial tree in honor of their loved one and friend. The purchase of a tree creates a beautiful permanent record on the Honoring a Life website, www.honoringalife.org. Each tree is planted through the efforts of Forestry Services throughout North America who determine where the greatest needs for reforestation are. Once planted, the geographical location where the tree is planted will be added to the record. A beautiful card is also sent to the family signifying your thoughtful gesture.
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We are proud to provide this service allowing friends and family to donate to any registered charity throughout North America. You will receive an official tax receipt immediately via email and your thoughtful gesture will remain on this memorial website in perpetuity.
The time surrounding a death can often bring unexpected final expenses for the family far beyond the funeral itself. We are pleased to offer the ability for friends and relatives to financially support the family during their time of loss as an alternative to flowers and other sympathy gestures.
This memorial currently does not have financial support enabled.
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Irene (Barnard) (Mellen) Murphy, of Cromwell, formerly of Wethersfield, died Friday, August 2, 2013 at Middlesex Memorial Hospital after almost 91very full years of life. Born in Barrow-in-Furness, Cumbria, UK, she was the daughter of the late Frank R. and Marion (Nicholson) Barnard . She was a sixty- year member of First Church of Christ in Wethersfield where she served as a deacon, sang in the church choir, taught nursery school, and enjoyed the camaraderie of the Amen Stitchers. For many years she was the Wethersfield High School guidance office secretary where she was affectionately known as the “English Lady.” She was an avid reader, loved to travel, was a wonderful homemaker, chuckled over the Peanuts comic strip, and played a great game of bridge. She is survived by her daughters and sons-in-law, Linda and Malcolm Zickler of Niceville, FL and Susan and Steven Palmer of East Hartford; her brother and sister-in-law, Thomas and Marcia Barnard of Middletown, NJ; and her sister, Susan Conlon of Somerset, NJ. She was also blessed with five wonderful grandchildren: Andrew and Ian Zickler; Caitlin, Sarah, and Jillian Palmer; and 2 beautiful great granddaughters: Madison Jeski, and Alden Schoenfield-Zickler. She also leaves her step-sons and their spouses: Michael and Jean Murphy of Glastonbury, Scott and Cathy Murphy of Wethersfield, and Dean and Carol Murphy, also of Wethersfield. Besides her parents she was predeceased by her loving husbands, Frank R. Mellen (1976), and Valentine L. Murphy (2013); her son, John R. Mellen; her brother, Frank R. Barnard, Jr.; and her step-mother, Jean K. Barnard. A memorial service will be held on Sunday, August 18, 2013 at 2 p.m. at the First Church of Christ, 250 Main St., Wethersfield. Burial will be private. There are no calling hours, however the family welcomes guests to gather in the Cadwell Building Connector after the service. Memorial contributions may be made to First Church of Christ in Wethersfield, Middlesex Memorial Hospital Home Care, or your favorite charity.
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