Ordering through the funeral home helps ensure your order will be placed through a local flower shop with whom the funeral home has a personal and trusting relationship with. Through this service, you will be able to leave a longer message of support to the family via a card with the picture of your selection that will be included with your thoughtful gesture. As well as a photo of your arrangement and message will remain in perpetuity within this memorial website. This service also includes “Smart Select” whereby the store notifies you if your floral selection has already been selected by another sender, allowing you the opportunity to choose a different arrangement if you wish.
The price of these selections also include the funeral home caring for the flowers after the funeral and delivering them to the family, or various care facilities where they can be rearranged and enjoyed by others for a longer period.
The solitude and quiet peace of a flickering candle has long been a symbol of remembrance. Each candle lit will remain lit within this memorial website for the period you select. Your thoughtful gesture will be captured both in the candle as well as listed in perpetuity within the tributes section.
In today’s changing world with climate change and environment concerns, “Honoring a Life” allows for family and friends to plant a memorial tree in honor of their loved one and friend. The purchase of a tree creates a beautiful permanent record on the Honoring a Life website, www.honoringalife.org. Each tree is planted through the efforts of Forestry Services throughout North America who determine where the greatest needs for reforestation are. Once planted, the geographical location where the tree is planted will be added to the record. A beautiful card is also sent to the family signifying your thoughtful gesture.
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We are proud to provide this service allowing friends and family to donate to any registered charity throughout North America. You will receive an official tax receipt immediately via email and your thoughtful gesture will remain on this memorial website in perpetuity.
The time surrounding a death can often bring unexpected final expenses for the family far beyond the funeral itself. We are pleased to offer the ability for friends and relatives to financially support the family during their time of loss as an alternative to flowers and other sympathy gestures.
This memorial currently does not have financial support enabled.
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Dean H. Bender, 82, of Marion, passed away Thursday, August 29, 2013, at Willow Gardens Care Center, Marion, following a long illness. Funeral Mass: 11:00 a.m. Wednesday, September 4, 2013, at St. Joseph Catholic Church, Marion. The family will greet friends from 4:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. Tuesday, September 3, 2013, at Murdoch Funeral Home & Cremation Center, Marion, with a vigil service beginning at 7:00 p.m. Burial: Cedar Memorial Park Cemetery with military honors provided by American Legion Post #298 of Marion. Survivors include his wife of 56 years, JoAnn; his son, Jeff Bender of Davenport; his two grandsons, Ryan Patrick Bender and Jacob Dean Bender; his brother, Joe (Jeanette) Bender of Paris, TX; and many nieces, nephews, and friends. He was preceded in death by his parents, and brother, Jim Bender. Dean was born December 14, 1930, in Keswick, Iowa, the son of Albert and Gertrude (Bales) Bender. He was a graduate of Marion High School and Cedar Rapids Business College. Dean was a veteran of the United States Air Force, having served as Staff Sergeant with the military police during the Korean War. He married JoAnn Willard on December 1, 1956, at St. Wenceslaus Catholic Church, Cedar Rapids. Dean worked in meat sales with Wilson Foods and Farmstead, retiring as Regional Sales Manager after over 30 years. Dean’s biggest passion and hobby was working with the Scouts. He was a Century Member of the Boy Scouts of America, and Scoutmaster of Troops #775 of Placentia, CA, and #89 of Marion. Dean was given the Award of Merit for Outstanding Service in 1989, and served as Hawkeye Area Council Commissioner in 1994. He also served on the Eagle Scout Board of Review for the Wapsiketa District for many years. Dean took multiple trips to Philmont Scout Ranch including the years 1984, 1985, 1992, and 1998. He was also a member of St. Joseph Catholic Church in Marion. Dean enjoyed spending time with his family and friends, telling stories, hunting, camping, fishing, and boating. In lieu of flowers, a memorial fund has been established in Dean’s memory. The family wishes to extend their thanks to Hospice of Mercy and the staff at Willow Gardens Care Center.
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